Guest post by Lisa Gerber, and it’s also her birthday today. Happy birthday, Lisa!
My 18-year old niece changed her first name this week.
I saw it in my Facebook feed so it must be true. There it was, her profile picture, the new name (same last name) and a slew of comments, question marks and wisecracks from her friends.
Well, I thought it was funny. Yes. But I’m going to have to side with her, and give the girl some credit.
See, she is graduating from Baltimore School of Arts in a few weeks and has been accepted into every single art school to which she applied; Rhode Island School of Design, Parsons, Maryland Institute College of Art, and Mass Arts. She’s going to Cooper Union in NYC. They accept 4% of their applicants. The top art students around the world will be there, making a name for themselves. My niece, Allie has big plans, and big vision.
Her name simply does not fit in with that plan.
Now, if Allie were the Gap, she might have caved by now from the backlash and the comments, such as, “Can we just call you The Artist Formerly Known as Allie?” Interestingly, she’s forged on. She knows we aren’t her audience moving forward. In fact, she said, “You guys can still call me Allie. This is for when I leave for school.”
Wittingly or unwittingly she knows a thing or two about personal branding. She’s got talent. That is clear. The top schools are falling over themselves, offering scholarships to get her to attend their institution.
But how will the average Joe know that she has talent? Those of us in the mainstream need a little more help to discover raw talent. The dressing matters, whether we like to believe it or not.
“IF A GREAT MUSICIAN PLAYS GREAT MUSIC BUT NO ONE HEARS . . . WAS HE REALLY ANY GOOD?”*
And when that same musician is playing in street clothes in the Metro stop, how do we know for sure he is brilliant? I mean, if he’s so brilliant, why is he playing for dollar bills in the Metro station? He must not be that good, right?
Do you remember that story? The Washington Post conducted an experiment and wrote about it in 2007, called Pearls before Breakfast. It’s a beautiful story and well worth the time to read the entire article. *They pose the question above.
How can we really tell what beauty is?
World-famous classic violinist, Joshua Bell, plays his 3.5 million dollar violin at the L’Enfant Plaza Metro station in Washington, D.C., during the morning rush hour. He fills symphony halls worldwide with high ticket prices and yet, when he played in the Metro station for just under an hour, 1,097 people passed by, a few stopped for a couple minutes, and he made $32.
A small percentage of people recognized the talent without the packaging of the high ticket price, and the elegant symphony hall.
I’m a strong believer in letting products and services speak for themselves, but there is a lot to be said for the finishing touches – the stunning retail space, the well designed bottle with the cool label, a great looking logo, a hip name. Something extra that makes the experience memorable and worth sharing.
Allie, you’ll always be Allie to me, but I love you for not letting your friends change your mind. Here’s some unsolicited advice from your Aunt: If they keep making fun of you, just tell them, “Hey, you’re not my target audience.”
That will shut them up.
Photo of Allie and Lisa’s husband © Lisa Gerber, used with permission
Lisa Gerber is the chief content officer of Spin Sucks. Spin Sucks Pro launched Monday, May 2 and this post is living proof that she survived it. She is, in the words of Howie Goldfarb, an Idaho expat in Chicago. On the perpetual search to balance happiness with ambition. Mountain girl, wife & mother of two beautiful dogs.
@ginidietrich Yeah! It made it! :)
@punchakpr This is totally off topic, but I LOVE the postcard you sent!
This is so good! I love the comparison to Gap and how they changed their logo because of the outcry in the blogosphere. if you know what you’re doing is right and you really believe the outcome will be good, don’t give in to peer pressure. I think it was Einstein who said there is no innovation without outcry.
@HowieSPM actually, I don’t disagree. iPad is the perfect example. :) everyone mocked the name relentlessly and yet???? :)
So it goes both ways.
But I think Lady Gaga is an awesome name.
@Shonali @Lisa Gerber Really?!?! :O I need to tell my girlfriends this. Maybe Google SEO is the real reason why hyphenating your last name is becoming so popular. :P
@punchakpr @Lisa Gerber That reminds me… when I changed my name after getting married, on a whim one day I Googled my maiden name (Shonali Ghosh). I was horrorstruck when I couldn’t find anything – ANYTHING – related to it, and there had been before. And I’d seen ’em before, but the results for “Shonali Burke” now overwhelmed anything else. I had a mini-meltdown… I felt like my life before my marriage had been wiped out, LOL.
@Shonali @Lisa Gerber Hmm, that’s a good point. I assume the information is available, but not readily. Most married women change their names and it’s fairly difficult to find their maiden names. And by “fairly difficult” I mean that it would take more than a google search.
@punchakpr @Lisa Gerber That’s a really interesting idea. I wonder if the court records to change names are a matter of public record… they must be, mustn’t they? Though I don’t know if it’s that easy to find them online…
If no one sees your tweet was it a tweet?
Here is where I bring my Contrarian Advertising Ninja Skillz. If she is that good her name won’t matter. If your not will your name save you? You have to admit Lady Gaga is one of the dumbest names she could of chosen in my opinion yet she created a full brand with mystery, raw meat, and bouncy pop. Kid Rock. Flava Flav.
Now if she could somehow graffiti tag the dome of the US Capitol she would definitely need a name like Banksy. Grats to your niece Cooper Union has a rad building in my favorite area of Manhattan where the more colorful and varied inhabitants live. Plus it’s an uuber art school.
I’m back!
@Lisa Gerber oh, and almost forgot, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
@Lisa Gerber It seems to have worked for him. His “incident” hasn’t been mentioned by any new people (or employers) he’s met. And he definitely learned his lesson about what goes online, stays online.
@HowieSPM lol, ok!!
@Lisa Gerber you can follow #runalienrun in about 5 minutes to monitor my progress.
@HowieSPM I happen to be here right now, so this is my placeholder response.
@CristerDelaCruz I LOVE the name Crister. But I can see how that would be different when you’re younger. We just want to fit in. Not be different. Thanks Crister. :)
I have to run will read this when I get back. This is my place holder comment. Hold my place. Right here. Thank you!
@Sean McGinnis @Shonali @lisagerber @ginidietrich not only did I survive, and did I not run out of food (my biggest fear in life), but Gini let me have the WHOLE day off. I’m playing today! (with a brief visit online to accept my many wonderful birthday wishes.) : )
@Marcus_Sheridan @nittygriddyblog Aw, thank you Marcus!! The funny thing is my sister, (her mom) Jackie – changed her name at that age to Jacqui and I call her to this day Jackwee. She went back to Jackie. But that’s a different deal altogether. LOL. I love that @nittygriddyblog calls you Mufasa and I just told her that yesterday. You do a great job of branding yourself. clearly. !
@punchakpr oh! now that’s a good idea! erase the online history by changing the name. I wonder if it works! ??
@Marcus_Sheridan @nittygriddyblog Aw, thank you Marcus!! The funny thing is my sister, (her mom) Jackie – changed her name at that age to Jacqui and I call her to this day Jackwee. She went back to Jackie. But that’s a different deal altogether. LOL. I love that @nittygriddyblog calls you Mufasa and I just told her that yesterday. You do a great job of branding yourself. clearly. !
Wow Lisa, this was clearly one of the cooler stories on branding I’ve read in a while. Loved the audacity of Alli with this. It’s funny, but I grew up as ‘Marc’. All my highschool friends and fam call me Marc, but I’ve always preferred Marcus. So when I started my writing/speaking career, I decided it would be Marcus, and now that’s what most people call me (or Mufasa nittygriddyblog or Marcus the Sales Lion or Marcus the Lion ;-). Now granted, this is nowhere near the example of Allie, but a name is more than a name, and a brand, as you so well said, can make all the difference.
Congratulations to your niece! I’ve had a few friends change their names for a variety of reasons. One did it to hide some unfortunate freshman year incidents from a Google search. Another did it because they felt their name was too common and they wanted to be more distinct. But whatever the reason, they never regretted their reinvention. :)
@Shonali lisagerber @ginidietrich That e-mail was scheduled. Nice to know the person formerly known as Lisa can fool you….. Maybe I’ll try that trick some time. ;0
@Sean McGinnis LOL. I’ll let lisagerber speak for herself when she gets a minute, but I can tell you that she sent me the post 2 days ago and I prepped it yesterday. She probably found @ginidietrich ‘s “in case of a nuclear explosion” food stash.
Oh come on!
This post was written weeks ago. There’s no WAY she actually survived the launch. They ran out of food over there weeks ago and @ginidietrich sure as hell ain’t letting her leave the office!
I love it! Go Allie! I hated my name growing up… especially when my bffs were Jenny and Cindy! I SO wanted to change my name. But now, it’s my brand… no other female Cristers in the world (that I know of)… plus CRIS and TEResita would kill me.