I love social media and networking. No surprises there. What is especially fascinating to me is their potential to bring together people who are virtually unknown [sic] to each other, and set the stage for something unique, something unintended and, quite possibly, something very, very good.
There are several examples of virtual “strangers” banding together to make a difference; certainly for non-profit organizations and causes, but also in response to personal appeals. Remember Beth Kanter’s birthday fund raising drive which raised thousands of dollars for kids in Cambodia? And how about the British teenager who was literally “saved by Facebook“?
I thought long and hard about doing this, and finally decided that if Chris Brogan can ask you to shave your head for charity (which I applaud, by the way) I can ask you to try to save a life.
Darby’s Story
My husband’s uncle died suddenly while vacationing in Panama a couple of weeks ago. To say it’s been a huge shock would be putting it mildly.
We are still not out of the rain forest, so to speak; unless you’ve been through it, you have no idea how much there is to deal with – or how complicated and arduous the process is – when a family member dies abroad.
Be that as it may, our uncle left no progeny behind… but he did leave a dog.
“Darby O’Callahan” is a spayed female German Shepherd, about 7 years old. I’ve never met her, but from what I hear, she is extremely affectionate towards people, healthy and quite a beauty. She’s also one of the few dogs I know who has her own Facebook page.
Should be a cinch to get her adopted, right?
Nope. It seems that Darby has lately been showing aggression towards other animals, which means she needs to go to a home where she’ll be an “only dog.”
Now, it’s quite possible this is a result of Darby’s recent stress, and her strong prey instinct (which is what the manager/trainer at Townhouse Pet Care Center, where she’s currently being boarded told me she probably has) could be trained out of her over time.
After all, if your “dad” had suddenly disappeared, and you’d been in a kennel for 3 weeks+, you’d be pretty ornery too… if you were still sane.
(Disclaimer: Much as I love them, I’m not an animal trainer or behaviorist, so I’m providing the information given to me by people who are more qualified than me in this area.)
I’ve been trying to contact a few different rescues in the Portland, Ore., area (which is where Darby is), but so far we haven’t had any luck placing her; I had a potential home for her which fell through when we heard about the aggression issue, which I was heartsick over. Several of my friends and family have received an email plea for me. Some of my Tweeps have been trying to spread the word.
Well, now I’m throwing it open to YOU. Can you help get the word out about Darby? Forward this post, tweet it, share it however you can.
The folks most likely to adopt her will, of course, be in the Portland area; can you activate your network(s) to see if we can reach people there? Perhaps even the media?
Those are horrifying statistics in a country where almost two-thirds of households have pets.
I don’t want Darby to become another statistic.
Can you – the embodiment of social media – help find Darby a home? Anyone who’s interested, or wants to know more, can reach me at info (a) getsharpdev.com/shonaliburke.
We would be so grateful. And I truly believe our uncle’s soul would be at rest.
Many thanks to the inimitable Susan Ragan for her great photographs of Darby, and to the folks at Townhouse for taking such good care of Darby while we try to place her.
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Shonali, I just came accross this thread and I realize it is old and I’m glad Darby found a home. I have to say that I’m impressed with your use of social media and the response of your network. I think that if more people showed the caring you do, many could be tragedies would have a better ending.
Patrick, thanks so much for commenting – it’s never too late. Yes, my network was incredible. Darby has a whole family she doesn’t even know exists. It’s quite amazing.
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What’s happening now? Any true prospective owners? I’m getting ready to be foster mother. Got a HUGE crate for her bed in the barn. She only has to sleep in it at night. Wouldn’t it be incredible if that dog/aggression was only kennel rage? Then she could be free on 25 acres!
It sure would (about the kennel rage, I mean), but I can’t say it’s only that. The TV segment’s making a difference so I’ll let you know any update as soon as I have it. Thank you again!
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I know a few peeps in the Portland area who are animal lovers so I’ve added this story to my Facebook page. Best of luck; German Shepards are wonderful dogs.
I appreciate it, thanks so much.
Shonali,
I would be happy to have a chat with Darby. I am an animal communicator in the Seattle area. I work with shelters and rescue groups. I can explain to her just what is happening and why. I can also explain what changes are in store for her in the future.
Please feel free t look at my web site, it is in final revision, it will give you a feel of the process.
I can donate a 1/2 hour session over the phone with you.
Just let me know if you are interested.
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Angie & Adriana – thank you both so much!
Hi Shonali
I just cross posted your message on my rescue groups! Hope she can find a Foster or Permanent home very soon!!
Thank you so much for caring about her
Adriana
She has a foster home if it comes to that. We’re hoping for permanent quickly because I, too, think she has cage rage and is probably not at all aggressive in real life. She would do better to just have her own place to live forever really soon!
You’re a gem, Susan.
We are passing the word on Darby – lets hope it works!! I am sure what they are seeing in Darby is stress related and depression – dogs can get cage rage, so I’m sure she is just feeling crazy in there – she needs a backyard and some exercise. :)
Thanks so much!
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oh I wish I could take Darby! My parents just lost their dog and would love a German Shepard. But I live in New Orleans, not Portland. I however, follow
http://twitter.com/youdig
who: Oregon Humane Society volunteer; working with homeless dogs.
I hope this helps find Darby a wonderful home!!
xo!
L$
Thanks so much, Liz; if your parents would be a good fit we could get Darby to Portland thanks to PetRelocation.com (see Rachel’s comment above). I sent you a DM on Twitter; perhaps we could try to connect over the phone?
If we could have her here, we would. Possible?
I don’t know if the quarantine, etc., make that practical… but I’ll call you. Thank you!
posted it on my fb page. you never know.
nina
Thank you!
p.s. Darby is a real sweetheart with people. She even kissed me, a stranger!
She could tell you’re a good egg!
(I took Darby’s picture at the kennel.)I think Darby (who is a female) would settle down once she got established in a loving home. Shepherds have the IQ of 3-4 year old children. Can you imagine a child going into an orphanage? People who adopted some of the Romanian and Russian children found out they had huge obstacles to overcome. MUCH worse than sweet Darby!
A few more thoughts for you.
Have you contacted Darby’s breeder? A reputable breeder will want to help you find a home at minimum and often will take the dog back him/herself. If Darby is AKC registered, the person’s name will be on her papers, and the national German Shepherd breed club can probably help you locate the person
If Darby came from a pet store, she was probably bred by a large commercial breeder versus a hobby breeder who will help you, but the breed club is still a resource for you. There may even be a local or regional chapter, through which you can contact GS fanciers in the area. Many breed clubs have rescue operations designed to place dogs that have lost their owners through circumstances just like yours.
AKC.org will have links to the GS breed clubs.
Susan – as far as I know, Darby was adopted by our uncle and so far, at least, I don’t know of any papers. We have no idea of her history before coming to live with him, unfortunately. I’ve been trying to reach the Oregon GSD rescue as well as some other rescue organizations, but I’ll check out the AKC links as well. Thank you!
Can you tell me, is her “aggression” only toward smaller animals which she might see as prey or would she pick a fight with another GSD? Huge difference!!! If it is the former, she will be MUCH easier to place!!!
Kathryn, I think she is somewhat ok around very mild, submissive animals, from what the trainer/manager tells me… but she needs training to get her out of her current frame of mind and get doggy-socialized again. If you’d like to talk further, perhaps you could email me your contact info?
Hey there Shonali,
I came across your blog post this evening about Darby via a Twitter friend who had RT’ed your plea. I was touched by the story – not only am I a pet lover, but I also handle all of the New Media and PR for PetRelocation.com, a company that handles pet moving and transportation worldwide.
We’re big believers in social media – not just as a way of helping our business grow but as a way of our business helping those who need it. We are active on Twitter (@petrelocation and our CEO, Kevin O’Brien is @_OB_) and we recently launched a free, “no-cost” alternative to our pet moving services in the form of a social network called MyPetMove.com.
It occurred to me that while Darby may find a new home, the perfect fit for him might be in California. Or New York. Or Georgia. That’s why, as part of our dedication to not only our customers and their pets but also helping people when they need it the most, I wanted to reach out to you with this offer:
Expand your search. Find the best home for Darby, regardless of location. PetRelocation.com, as a symbol of our compassion for pets and – hey, we admit it – love for social media, will cover Darby’s relocation to his new home — wherever that may be.
Darby will get the same first-class treatment that our customers receive — door-to-door, climate controlled transportation to and from the airports, a flight on a climate-controlled, pet-friendly airline, and all the pet moving resources and assistance that we provide our two-legged customers — free of charge.
Let me know what you think. We believe social media can help Darby find a new home — and we’d love to be a part of that success.
Cheers,
Rachel
Rachel Farris
PetRelocation.com
1-877-PET-MOVE
512-264-9800 x 113
I have adopted two dogs from Boston Terrier Rescue and talked to many others that have rescued dogs. We do have a wonderful shelter here in our beautiful Rancho Sante Fe area of San Diego that does not euthanize dogs. The find homes for all dogs and it is a lovely facillity. It is called Helen Woodward Animal Center. Check then out online. Or you might connect with some Shepard Rescues in different cities and state and I know you will find people who love shepards and a good home for Darby. Bless the lady who said they could help move her anywhere. I am seeing a perfect home for such a beautiful dog where all live happily ever after. It is no surprise about her being upset at loosing her pact! Your uncle was her family and pact and she is stressing.
Wish I could take her but can’t. Maybe one of these ideas can help you. I am sorry about your loss.
Blessings, Kathy
Thanks very much for the Helen Woodward information, Kathy, as well as for your good wishes. Anything you can do to spread the word would be so appreciated. Many thanks again.
Rachel – that is an incredibly generous offer, thank you so much. I know only too well that the best match might not necessarily be in Darby’s backyard, so to speak; one of our dogs came to us from Missouri via New York…! I have indeed been trying to spread the word not just all over the US but even to my family and friends abroad – you never know who might have that magic connection. If we do find that magic match, you can be sure I’ll be in touch with you. If you’d like to send me all your contact information via info@shonaliburke.com, I’ll be in touch with you offline as well. Thank you again!
Hi Shonali,
Just sent you an email with my contact information. My email address is Rachel@PetRelocation.com.
I look forward to speaking with you — and Darby! :)
Cheers,
Rachel
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